Risk is the price you pay for opportunity

Tom Selleck was born in Detroit in 1945 while his father was working in the U.S. Army as a mechanic on B-29 bombers. Selleck, his older brother, and his mother lived with his grandparents until his father returned two years later. A carpenter by trade, Selleck’s father dreamed of starting a new life in California. In 1949, the dream became a reality when the Sellecks moved with nothing more than what they could fit into the family car. With the help of the GI bill, they made a down payment on a small house in Sherman Oaks, near Los Angeles.

Working on straight commission as a real estate agent, Selleck’s father earned money only when he sold a house.

Looking back, Selleck realized the family’s financial situation was precarious, but he was not aware of the stress and hardships his parents faced. “I could go into analysis for 20 years and never blame my parents for anything,” he says. “They lived a life of strong moral values and taught us that you are judged by your last worst act. They didn’t lecture us about how to be good; they just set a good example. They walked their talk.”

Selleck enjoyed school, but mostly because it was a way to play sports. Athletically built and exceptionally coordinated, Selleck did well in high school basketball and baseball. He was offered a basketball scholarship to Montana State University, but he turned it down because he had always dreamed of attending the University of Southern California (USC). Even though he had the grades to attend USC, the school had not offered him a scholarship, and his parents couldn’t afford to send him. Instead, he went to Valley Junior College, which enabled him to live at home and save money. He worked part time at a clothing store.

During his junior year, Selleck transferred to USC

, where he majored in business. He got a new job working as a USC campus representative for United Airlines. During his last semester at USC, Selleck’s fraternity brothers talked him into appearing on a popular television show, The Dating Game. The appearance earned him an interview for a Pepsi-Cola commercial, which he landed mainly because the ad called for an actor who could stuff a basketball. “I drank about a case of Pepsi making that commercial,” he says. This exposure led to an offer by 20th Century Fox to join its new talent program. Selleck jumped at the opportunity and was soon balancing school in the morning with Fox’s training classes in the afternoon.

Six months later, Selleck was out of school and training with Fox when he received his physical notice for the draft. To have some control over his situation, Selleck entered the U.S. National Guard and served in the infantry. A natural leader, Selleck participated in Officer Candidate School, and ultimately earned the rank of sergeant.

Every six months, Selleck’s contract with Fox was renewed, but after his fourth option, he was fired. During his time with Fox, he had gotten no real acting jobs, but he was not yet ready to give up on his dream. He moved in with his brother and worked at a clothing store. He had become committed to acting, so he went for training at night and worked in the store during the day. He made a sporadic living off of commercials and eventually began to win lead roles.

Selleck made a pilot for a series, but that also became a test of patience and perseverance. When the pilot did not sell, Selleck had to move on and look for his next job. In fact, he made six unsold pilots. Life was a struggle, and his determination was beginning to waver. He was in his early 30s, and he had a wife and stepson.

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